We watch our children grow right before our very eyes giving us an ever-changing role as a parent. We watch our babies learn to crawl, walk, and feed themselves. So quickly they’re in school, involved in activities, making friends, and learning to be more and more independent.

We watch our children grow right before our very eyes giving us an ever-changing role as a parent. Parenting, kids, strengthen family

Parents before us have said that from the time they’re born, we are constantly learning to let go. As a result, your parenting strategies have to change. Your child grows, develops, learns, and matures, and so does your parenting role.

Through time, you’ve discovered your child has their own unique personality and temperament. You’ve probably unconsciously redeveloped your parenting skills around the individual needs of each stage. And no two children are exactly alike, so your parenting style has likely adapted to meet each personality.

Some children may need more guidance and feel more unsure of themselves, so we’ve become used to having to guide, lead, show and encourage that child consistently through their childhood while still trying to encourage independence and give praise in order to build their self esteem and confidence level. Yet another child may be very intrinsically motivated and very willful and not need a great deal of guidance or leadership from you. While you encourage their independence, it’s also important that you also encourage their ability to ask for help when needed and continue to praise good deeds, actions, and traits.

Be flexible.

The most important tools we have in order to successfully adjust our parenting skills are our eyes and our ears. We have to see what’s going on with our child and we have to hear what they are telling us. It’s important that we encourage our child to be their own individual while still being available to them at whatever level or degree they need us to be. Sometimes it’s situation-specific as well. A child may not need us to be as directly involved with their schooling to ensure their overall academic success, but they may need us to be more involved in their social life as they may be feeling a bit shaky or scared when it comes to making new friends or meeting new people.

So the bottom line is this: as your child grows and changes, so should your parenting skills. Keep your eyes and ears open and communicate honestly and openly with your child, and you’ll both mature gracefully.

What changes have you noticed in your ever-changing role as a parent?

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